For a while, I’ve suspected that “no-buy days”—days in which you deliberately stay away from merchandisers of all kinds—would cause you to spend less on those days but create a pent-up demand that would predispose you to more spending and stimulate impulse buys on the days you allowed yourself into the stores.
In the wee hours of this morning, as I was wondering how I could get around what is now a migrating closing date on my American Express account, it occurred to me that instead of “no buy” days, you could establish set “buy” days during a given billing cycle, and otherwise letevery day be a no-buy day. In other words, you would not set foot in a retail establishment or click on a Web store’s site except on specific days set aside to make purchases. This thought drove me to Quicken as dawn was cracking.
There I discovered that over the past year I’ve tended somewhat in that direction: more and more no-buy days and fewer and fewer days in which I do purchase things. In January 2008, for example, I made 16 trips to various food purveyors, dropping an astonishing $734.33 on groceries. In January 2009, I made 10 trips and spent $333.99 on groceries.
Evidently, fewer trips to grocery stores mean less cash spent on groceries.
Now, in January 2008, my German shepherd was still living. She ate a lot of food, and that may account for some of the whopping bill. But what really accounts for it is that I was in the habit of stopping by Trader Joe’s or AJ’s (a local “gourmet” market) on the way home from work, where I would regularly buy a snack and beer or wine. I’ve almost stopped doing that. To the extent that I buy beer or wine—which I’ve also almost stopped doing—I buy it at Costco, where Corona is to be had at a significant markdown over the grocery-store price. And I’ve been sick for the past month and haven’t felt like eating…that could have to do with the drop in spending.
The December grocery bill was a hundred bucks more than January’s, but then I did throw an expensive Christmas dinner party.
The truth is, it looks like staying out of grocery stores cuts one’s bills significantly. With a little tinkering—establish specific days for shopping, build a week or ten days’ worth of menus beforehand and attack the store with a carefully crafted shopping list, and shop more at Target or even (ugh!) Walmart—it ought to be possible to reduce the grocery bill to a sane level. Three hundred and thirty bucks for one old lady and one small dog is not sane.
The trouble with grocery shopping at Target is that Target is a dangerous place. The last time I saved a bunch of money on grocery items, I spent $150 on sheets and bedding that I really didn’t need. I also spotted a $250 bicycle of the type I covet, available at other purveyors for $400 to $700. Ditto Walmart: they have the minivacuum cleaner I want, the one with the electric cord. Every other store carries only the cordless variety, which won’t run long enough to vacuum an entire houseful of tiled floors. All the big box stores—Costco, Target, Home Depot, and Walmart—pose the same threat. You go in to buy necessities, but they offer so much other tempting junk that it’s very, very difficult to get out with your wallet intact.
But I will say: last year at this time I was spending way too much at Trader Joe’s and AJ’s, emporiums that sell almost nothing but groceries and household items.
Here, apparently, is the key to surviving on a reduced income: plan, plan, plan! Plan specific shopping days and gasoline-purchase days. Plan purchases carefully, using lists and resisting unplanned buys. Defer impulse buys until the next scheduled shopping day, to give yourself time to think it over. And plan to make every day a no-buy day except for the scheduled shopping days.
I work ancillary in the supermarket industry and this is backed up with hundreds of pages of research. Heh, I’m at home with a cat on my desk rather than piles of articles, so no statistics. The simple act of grabbing a cart when your purchases will fit in a basket can cause you to spend more if you aren’t shopping directly from a list. Staying out of the store is powerful but the research seems to point to the list being the most important part of the equation. The minute you step foot into a store there are hundreds of “BUYBUYBUY” marketing messages assaulting you.
When I lived in AZ, sans car and on a meager grad student stipend, online grocery shopping was a god send. When you order online you have to have a list and you’re removed from the advertising. So my $100/mo grocery store budget was adequate and then I could supplement it with a few bucks a week for fast food.
I’ve gotten the shopping one day a week thing down (my mom and I shop together to save gas) but I’m still working on the list and the cooking. Also, if your library has any Paco Underhill books they’re a great non-trade press source for a lot of this sort of info.
That IS interesting. You have to pay a surcharge for online shopping, and you get no choice in the quality of the produce — whatever some kid in the stock department grabs off the top of the bin is what you get. But the idea that you could actually save money by having your groceries delivered is fascinating. You could always buy everything BUT produce and then go to a specific store armed with a list for your fresh fruits and vegetables.
Basha’s has canceled its online ordering service. I don’t know whether Safeway still does it — hope so, but in these times, services like these are unlikely to survive, especially if they’re actually costing stores money by cutting into impulse buys. They’re a godsend for the elderly in an area like Phoenix, where public transportation is inadequate.
Planning definitely goes a long way to keeping your spending down. Each time you go in the supermarket you risk spending a little extra on the things you don’t need.
I’m tending towards one big shop a week now with another visit half way through to ge milk, bread and other bits and pieces. Generally I spend less than I used to when I used to go in 3 or 4 times a week.
Absolutely! My plan is to reduce shopping trips to once a month — or as close to that as I can manage.